{"id":863,"date":"2011-11-19T15:47:43","date_gmt":"2011-11-19T20:47:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.angelashornstudio.com\/blog\/?p=863"},"modified":"2011-11-19T15:47:43","modified_gmt":"2011-11-19T20:47:43","slug":"your-toolbox-and-some-stocking-tips","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.angelashornstudio.com\/blog\/?p=863","title":{"rendered":"Your Toolbox &#8211; And Some Stock(ing) Tips"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-866\" title=\"Emerging Adults\" src=\"http:\/\/www.angelashornstudio.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/students-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.angelashornstudio.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/students-300x225.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.angelashornstudio.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/students.jpg 800w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>For a variety of reasons, my attention has recently been directed toward that unique and challenging time of life that used to be called \u201cyoung adulthood\u201d \u2013 about ages 18-25 and sometimes into the late 20\u2019s.\u00a0 The realities of those in this age group have been shifting dramatically for a while, but there\u2019s a marked difference even in the past fifteen to twenty years.\u00a0 Some have taken to calling it \u201cextended adolescence,\u201d hinting at the trend of those of this age group to wait much later in life before taking on what are traditionally considered adult responsibilities \u2013 finding a life partner, having children, buying a house, and \u201csettling down\u201d in general. There is less social pressure than in the past to get married immediately after college, and young people are taking extra time to get advanced degrees and travel and get started in their careers before making the more permanent commitments.<\/p>\n<p>I heard an interview a few weeks ago on Marty Moss-Coane\u2019s show <em>Radio Times<\/em> here in Philadelphia.\u00a0 She was speaking with Jeffrey Jansen Arnett and Hannah Seligson.\u00a0 <a title=\"Jeffrey Arnett's Website\" href=\"http:\/\/jeffreyarnett.com\/\">Jeffrey Arnett<\/a> is the one who first proposed the label \u201cemerging adulthood\u201d for that period of life from the late teens to the mid-to-late twenties.\u00a0 His theories and thoughts about this age group are fascinating and if you\u2019re interested, I encourage you to check it out!\u00a0\u00a0 <a title=\"Hannah Seligson's Website\" href=\"http:\/\/www.hannahseligson.com\/\">Hannah Seligson<\/a> is\u00a0a 30-year-old successful journalist with <a title=\"Washingtonian article by Hannah Seligson\" href=\"http:\/\/www.washingtonian.com\/articles\/people\/21277.html\">equally interesting thoughts<\/a> about this time of life, and she happens to be closer to it in age than Jeffrey Arnett.\u00a0 So it makes for <a title=\"Marty Moss-Coane's Radio Times show\" href=\"http:\/\/whyy.org\/cms\/radiotimes\/2011\/11\/08\/twentysomethings-and-the-long-and-winding-road-to-adulthood\/\">great show<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>No matter your feeling about the trends of those formerly known as \u201cyoung adults,\u201d the fact is that it is during this time period that most aspiring young musicians are really hitting it hard.\u00a0 It is prime working time and when the meat of musical education generally takes place &#8211; though it can take place earlier or later for some.\u00a0 Certain instruments lend themselves to intense work at different times.\u00a0 Strings and piano start very early, and the voice can be developed later, for instance.\u00a0 But generally speaking, everyone is working hard between ages 18-25 as they move towards becoming professionals, and for most brass players I know, this was the most intense time of development.<\/p>\n<p>For anyone, no matter the professional aspirations, this time of life is usually full of exploration, excitement, and constant change \u2013 all of which lend themselves to questions, disappointment and uncertainty. And for someone wanting to become a professional classical musician, I think that the positive and negative qualities of this time can feel heightened due to several factors: that music involves the whole person \u2013 body, mind, emotions, and spirit; it is highly competitive with no guarantees of a steady job in the future; and, last but not least, the final product is a public one that happens in real time.\u00a0 Additionally, these days, the music business is changing quickly and requires &#8211; or at least is helped by having &#8211; even more skills than ever before.\u00a0 Public speaking, grant writing, and an entrepreneurial know-how, for instance, are coming in more and more handy.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-865\" title=\"Hard Work Ahead\" src=\"http:\/\/www.angelashornstudio.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/9334703-hard-work-ahead-232x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"232\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.angelashornstudio.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/9334703-hard-work-ahead-232x300.jpg 232w, http:\/\/www.angelashornstudio.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/9334703-hard-work-ahead.jpg 310w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 232px) 100vw, 232px\" \/>As an aside, I should say here that if you are thinking of becoming a musician, or are in school for music, and don\u2019t already realize that making it as a professional musician is an all-consuming task, now is a good time to contemplate that fact.\u00a0 I have yet to meet an accomplished classical musician who has not been through a period of many years (usually the majority of their young lives and beyond) of unbelievable focus and hard work.\u00a0 We\u2019re talking about day-in-day-out commitment, regardless of whether it is a weekday or weekend, a normal day or a holiday.\u00a0 It is like training for the Olympics \u2013 daily refinement of your skills over a long period of time while also preparing for big events that will help you progress on your desired path. \u00a0Must this challenging path be angst-filled and joyless for you?\u00a0 I hope not!\u00a0 In fact, if you are angst-filled all the time, something is wrong.\u00a0 (See this <a title=\"Study Hacks blog\" href=\"http:\/\/calnewport.com\/blog\/2011\/11\/11\/if-youre-busy-youre-doing-something-wrong-the-surprisingly-relaxed-lives-of-elite-achievers\/\">great blog post by Cal Newport<\/a> to read more about this subject).\u00a0 Generally speaking, music will fuel you and give back to you, as will the people and experiences you encounter along the way.\u00a0 However, it is up to you to determine whether you are getting enough back from music to warrant pursuing it as your life\u2019s work.<\/p>\n<p>If you have a strong pull towards another field, or feel more fulfilled in your contributions to something else, then all of that should be taken into consideration as you contemplate what it is that you really want to do.\u00a0 There is no glory in doing something that isn\u2019t going to be a right fit for you or is not going to give you what you need.\u00a0 Music is for everyone, and you don\u2019t have to be making your living performing it in order for it to be a significant and meaningful part of your life.<\/p>\n<p>But let\u2019s assume for now that you are aware of all of this, have made your decision, and are in it for the long haul. You\u2019re going to go for it and give it your all.\u00a0 In fact, you can\u2019t imagine NOT being a musician or at least giving it your best shot.\u00a0 Wonderful!\u00a0 I believe that if you truly dive into something, it will never be time or energy wasted, even if you end up changing directions later in life.<\/p>\n<p>So, you set out on your path, and you go to a university or college with a great music department or perhaps a conservatory.\u00a0 It\u2019s exciting to be immersed in music, finally able to give the majority of your attention to music, but the challenges are immense.\u00a0 You are playing more hours a day than you ever thought possible between your ensembles and personal practice. As you are ready, you might be (and should be if at all possible!) taking festival auditions or participating in competitions and other events in addition to your school activities.\u00a0 So the sheer physical demand is heavy, to say nothing of any personal drama that might be going on as you adjust to being your own boss (more or less), making your own decisions, and confronting questions and situations you have never faced before.\u00a0 There is, in a nutshell, a lot going on in your life.<\/p>\n<p>If you are working hard and putting yourself out there, in addition to the thrill of all that is new and exciting, you are undoubtedly also encountering times of disappointment, disillusionment, and exhaustion.\u00a0 There are be performances and auditions that don\u2019t go as you would have hoped.\u00a0 You might even feel like some of them are grand failures.<\/p>\n<p>So, how do you make sure that this time is spent moving towards musical maturity rather than simply extending adolescence?\u00a0 And how do you avoid getting caught in distractions and downward spirals that will undermine you?<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ll try to offer a few ideas.<\/p>\n<p>First of all, remember what the goal is: to become a consummate artist and the musical equivalent of an elite athlete.\u00a0 You want to be the very best you can be.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-864\" title=\"Toolbox\" src=\"http:\/\/www.angelashornstudio.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/Toolbox-300x273.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"273\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.angelashornstudio.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/Toolbox-300x273.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.angelashornstudio.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/Toolbox.jpg 658w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>What are elements that can lead to the goal?\u00a0 Enter the TOOLBOX.\u00a0 This time of life, in my opinion, is about <em>using<\/em> the intensity of it, your access to resources, and the ample playing and practice time to stock your toolbox with materials that will aid you on your journey, not only through your emerging adulthood, but beyond into your life and your career.\u00a0 You want your toolbox to be stocked full of resources, inspiration, and the tried and true tools of your trade. \u00a0You will be able to add to it, of course, but now is prime stocking time!<\/p>\n<p>Tool #1:\u00a0 GREAT HABITS.\u00a0\u00a0 Your first priority as you start this journey should be to establish those habits that will encourage the growth, health, and longevity of your career.\u00a0 What does this mean?\u00a0 I think it means you really want to <em>get to<\/em> <em>know yourself<\/em>.\u00a0 And in my opinion, having a daily routine is one of the greatest ways to get to know yourself and your playing. \u00a0This should be a deliberate and conscious process of getting the muscles warm and daily cared for, and for touching on all of the basics that you need as a horn player.\u00a0 To have a routine is not to say you can\u2019t shake it up or expand as you grow or as your needs change, but it will allow you to learn the nuts and bolts of your own technique and needs.\u00a0 You can use it as a touchstone every day, both now and in your career, so that you\u2019re daily <em>paying attention<\/em>, knowing what feels right and works best for you, knowing what you need to do to play well that day and be prepared for what\u2019s coming up.\u00a0 A daily warm-up and routine in my opinion is an invaluable tool!<\/p>\n<p>Tool #2: EFFICIENCY and the RIGHT KIND OF WORK.\u00a0 Learn how to learn.\u00a0 Learn how to focus.\u00a0 Learn how to prepare and be efficient in your preparation.\u00a0 The more effectively you can do this, the less you\u2019ll beat your head up against the practice room wall.\u00a0 Read books like <em>The Inner Game of Tennis<\/em> or <em>Soprano on Her Head<\/em> or <em>Thinking Body, Dancing Mind.<\/em> I also really like Stephen Covey\u2019s <em>Seven Habits of Highly Effective People. <\/em>These are all books with very helpful suggestions on how to learn, think, and practice, and how to do the best kind of work.<\/p>\n<p>Tool #3: GATHER RESOURCES THAT HELP YOU WITH YOUR WEAK LINKS. \u00a0You&#8217;re only as strong as your weakest link! \u00a0So, for instance, when the demands placed on you are great, there is no better time to learn about stress and your response to it.\u00a0 When going out on stage is not settling so well with you (or is downright striking fear in your heart!) there is no better time to learn about fear and your response to it.\u00a0 When you\u2019ve had a hard time of it, with a string of not-so-great performances, there is no better time to learn about resilience, bouncing back, and persistence!\u00a0\u00a0 Responding to stress and fear are things that we can learn how to do better.\u00a0 Two of my very favorite resources geared towards these topics are books that were recommended to me along the way as I was stocking my own toolbox in school:\u00a0 <em>The New Toughness Training for Sports <\/em>by James E. Loehr and <em>Feel the Fear and Do it Anyway<\/em> by Susan Jeffers.\u00a0 Contrary to what you may gather from the titles, these are not about becoming a calloused, tough jock, but rather about being resilient and knowing how to think, act, and re-act in various circumstances, and getting in the habit of responding to those perceived high-pressure situations in certain ways.\u00a0 Musician or not, anyone striving to be truly elite and excellent in their given field will find something helpful in these books.<\/p>\n<p>Tool #4: GET TO KNOW THE WIDER MUSIC WORLD.\u00a0 Look for opportunities to put yourself out there and be involved, not only within your school, but outside of it. Subscribe to your instrument\u2019s society and publication.\u00a0 For us horn players, it is the Horn Call from the International Horn Society.\u00a0\u00a0 Go to your music library and read the music magazines and publications to see what\u2019s going on in the music world these days.\u00a0 One of the best resources I know of for young emerging professional musicians is New England Conservatory\u2019s <a title=\"NEC Music Career Handouts\" href=\"http:\/\/necmusic.edu\/em\/music-career-handouts\">Entrepreneurial Musicianship Department<\/a>.\u00a0 They have a wealth of information and resources compiled that you will definitely want as part of your toolbox!<\/p>\n<p>Tools #5 and #6: EXPOSURE and EXPLORATION, both of which are related to Tool #4.\u00a0 By exposure, I mean exposing your ears to great music and musicians, great live concerts, and great recordings.\u00a0 Absorb everything you can.\u00a0 If something is beautiful to you, what made it beautiful?\u00a0 Can you replicate it?\u00a0\u00a0 So look outside of yourself, find people that inspire you and see what you can learn from them. Read biographies of great musicians.\u00a0 Just knowing about some of their paths, challenges, and attitudes can be invaluable.<\/p>\n<p>Exploration of and exposure to the larger music world will not only give you relevant information about events and trends, they will give you \u201cdream\u201d material and inspiration that can start ideas percolating about how you would most like to use your talents.\u00a0 Perhaps you even have another skill or passion aside from music that could be combined with music.\u00a0 The possibilities are endless, as you\u2019ll see if you look at some of the resources I mentioned.\u00a0 Could you see yourself going to Europe on a Fulbright to study? If so, you should you start taking your language classes now! And you should see if there\u2019s a way to meet the teacher you would like to study with while there.\u00a0 You\u2019ll need their support.\u00a0 Are you drawn to the world of chamber music?\u00a0 If so, find some festivals you can apply for that might allow you to be immersed in that world.\u00a0 Is being in an orchestra your dream job?\u00a0 Find out what those who are getting jobs now did when they were your age.\u00a0 Where did they go for school and during their summers?\u00a0 Who did they study with? Are you wild about new music? Have fun learning extended techniques!\u00a0 (You\u2019ll have to do this anyway as a professional classical musician, so you might as well enjoy it.)\u00a0 Think early music is the greatest?\u00a0 Find a natural horn workshop.<\/p>\n<p>One of my favorite approaches to exploration is by starting what I call a \u201cstring.\u201d Find something that is compelling to you and follow it.\u00a0 See where it leads.\u00a0 Sometimes you have experiences or meet people that will introduce you to another string of thought or interest, or deepen your interest in the current string. As the writer and columnist Franklin P. Adams said, \u201cI find that a great part of the information I have was acquired by looking up something and finding something else on the way.\u201d\u00a0 And this is one of the greatest luxuries of this time of life.\u00a0 That is not to say you won\u2019t be able to do this later, but it will never be easier than it is now.<\/p>\n<p>I would love to hear from any readers who would like to share their favorite toolbox items with me and other readers.\u00a0 Favorite books?\u00a0 Favorite resources? Anything that has been especially of help to you would be of great interest, so please feel free to comment!<\/p>\n<p>Happy Toolbox Stocking!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Books for Further Reading:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>W. Timothy Gallwey,\u00a0<em>The Inner Game of Tennis<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Eloise Ristad, <em>Soprano on Her Head<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Chungliang Al Huang and Jerry Lynch, <em>Thinking Body, Dancing Mind<\/em><\/p>\n<p>James E. Loehr, <em>The New Toughness Training for Sports<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Susan Jeffers, Ph.D., <em> Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For a variety of reasons, my attention has recently been directed toward that unique and challenging time of life that used to be called \u201cyoung adulthood\u201d \u2013 about ages 18-25 and sometimes into the late 20\u2019s.\u00a0 The realities of those &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.angelashornstudio.com\/blog\/?p=863\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_s2mail":"yes","footnotes":""},"categories":[5,1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-863","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-habits","category-uncategorized"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.angelashornstudio.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/863","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.angelashornstudio.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.angelashornstudio.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.angelashornstudio.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.angelashornstudio.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=863"}],"version-history":[{"count":46,"href":"http:\/\/www.angelashornstudio.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/863\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":931,"href":"http:\/\/www.angelashornstudio.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/863\/revisions\/931"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.angelashornstudio.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=863"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.angelashornstudio.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=863"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.angelashornstudio.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=863"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}