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Last week I played with the ballet.\u00a0 For those who know me, it is no secret that I love dance.\u00a0 I even took some beginner ballet classes last year so that I could experience it first-hand.\u00a0 I had a wonderful teacher here in Philadelphia who somehow managed to weave dance history, theory and philosophy in with the physical movements that he taught us, and it was enlightening!<\/p>\n
One of the things I find most impressive about great ballet dancers is that, no matter what they are feeling \u2013 and they can feel a lot of very unpleasant things \u2013 they always exude a sense of balance, grace and ease.\u00a0 It takes a lot of discipline to put that face on when you\u2019re not particularly feeling like dancing, or if your energy is sapped, or if you are even in pain.<\/p>\n I often approach horn playing and any of life\u2019s endeavors from the inside-out, and this is generally a good thing, I think.\u00a0 As the fox in The Little Prince<\/em> says, \u201cWhat is essential is invisible to the eye.\u201d\u00a0 So the inside is always the most important in my view. \u00a0 However, what I\u2019ve found is that it can be extremely helpful to approach whatever endeavor is at hand (for our purposes at the moment \u2013 horn playing) from both directions \u2013 the outside-in as well as the inside-out.<\/p>\n For example, there are times when the practice room or the stage is the last place you want to be.\u00a0 This is just life. <\/em>Things can get us physically and\/or emotionally and it\u2019s hard to get out the horn and gear up to get some work done. \u00a0This is when an outside-in<\/em> approach and poise <\/em>comes in very handy. \u00a0You pull your shoulders back, un-wrinkle your forehead, take a deep breath, and \u201cjust do it.\u201d And sometimes it can happen that your inner thoughts and emotions react to the expression you have put on your face, how you sit, and how your eyes are focused.\u00a0 They can \u201cperk up\u201d or \u201ccalm down\u201d\u00a0 \u2013 or whatever is needed at the moment.<\/p>\n Though yoga can provide an opportunity to physically practice qualities that are desired on the inside, you don\u2019t have to be a yogi, or even remotely interested in yoga, to experience the benefits of this outside-in<\/em> way of thinking. \u00a0You can experiment with this right away by simply sitting up straight, or smiling, or pulling your shoulders back, or relaxing the focus of your eyes so that you are aware of the entire room in your periphery.\u00a0 Can you feel how the rest of your body and your inner state can respond to these little changes?<\/p>\n These are great skills to have in your bag of tricks when you don\u2019t feel spectacular, but need to get some work done anyway.<\/p>\n Outside-in<\/em> can also be really helpful in learning a new skill, as long as it\u2019s balanced by inside-out<\/em>.\u00a0 It is similar to acting, or taking a “fake-it-till-you-make-it” approach. \u00a0It\u2019s very interesting to test limits by\u00a0 \u201ctrying something on\u201d for a while even if it feels foreign.\u00a0 For instance, let’s say you\u2019ve done the technical work necessary on a certain passage, but still haven\u2019t developed confidence in it.\u00a0 One way to approach this would be to contemplate what it might look and feel like to be confident about it.\u00a0 Imagine it, put it on, and give it a whirl. \u00a0You might surprise yourself.\u00a0 From there, you work on incorporating that attitude into your playing every time you approach that passage so that the new skill of confidence works its way into you and becomes something you can count on.<\/p>\n I don\u2019t mean to advocate being disingenuous \u2013 I believe it is totally fine to feel how you feel and to be genuine about it.\u00a0 There are times, however, when, in order to get out of a rut or to get to the next level, or to just plain get through a performance, it is helpful to contemplate something outside ourselves in order to free ourselves up.\u00a0 It is all too easy to get caught up in inner dramas. This is a way to \u201cjust do it!\u201d<\/p>\n Even more important than poise<\/em> is what poise<\/em> develops into over a longer period of time and with larger obstacles \u2013 resilience<\/em>!\u00a0 Resilience also includes the ability to improvise, to think calmly when all around you seems to be crumbling, and to generally ride the waves of life and not get pulled under.<\/p>\n My husband and I were talking recently about our fast-moving, fast-changing world.\u00a0 One thing he says is that success in our quickly-changing world is going to be determined by how calmly and clearly one can think under stress and upheaval.<\/p>\n When things change, stress naturally follows because we human beings do NOT like it.\u00a0 We prefer stability and certainty \u2013 and why not!?\u00a0 This is when we feel most at ease and comfortable \u2013 this is when we feel we can enjoy life.\u00a0 But if we can get in the habit of thinking clearly and staying poised when bobbles big and small are going on around us, we have a chance.\u00a0 This ability to not allow ourselves to get caught in downward-spirals (from within or without!) or to whipped into a frenzy about things gives us a chance to breathe, see alternatives, and think in a different way.<\/p>\n I must add that I don\u2019t think it is easy to do this alone.\u00a0 It is always helpful to have others around us who aid in resisting the pull of the \u00a0downward spirals. Good friends, family and community are so important.\u00a0 This is where we find support, get ideas, bounce new ways of thinking off of each other, and find ways to help each other through hard times.<\/p>\n So, can I say it? \u00a0Give poise<\/em> a chance!<\/p>\n Resources:<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/strong>Antoine de Saint-Exup\u00e9ry, The Little Prince<\/em><\/p>\n Donna Farhi, Yoga Mind, Body, and Spirit<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Last week I played with the ballet.\u00a0 For those who know me, it is no secret that I love dance.\u00a0 I even took some beginner ballet classes last year so that I could experience it first-hand.\u00a0 I had a wonderful … Continue reading ![\"\"](\"http:\/\/www.angelashornstudio.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/04\/ballet3-300x200.jpg\" "\\"Learning")
The very first thing that I learned in ballet class was correct stance – the neutral posture from which your body moves and where your body returns.\u00a0 Everything is specified \u2013 down to the arrangement of the fingers, the expression on the face, and even the direction of the gaze of the eyes. \u00a0When these details have been tended to, what you get is the embodiment of poise<\/em>.<\/p>\n![\"\"](\"http:\/\/www.angelashornstudio.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/04\/AngelaWarrior-300x224.jpg\" "\\"Angela")
The idea that what happens in the body has an effect on the emotions and mental state is an integral part of certain approaches to yoga and one of the things I love most about it. \u00a0For example, what happens when you place yourself in a particular yoga pose is that you are \u201cputting on\u201d outwardly the qualities that can stand to be exercised and warmed-up on the inside.\u00a0 So for instance, when I am in warrior pose, legs strong and rooted, chest open, radiating out from my center through my arms and legs, soft but focused gaze \u2013 these physical actions can nudge my mind and emotions towards the corresponding inner qualities. In the case of warrior pose, these might be grounded-ness, an open heart, energy, and strong intention.<\/p>\n